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I once became anxious, why somethings are happening now, and why are some not happening now. I became very frustrated even at myself. 

Am I not excelling enough?

Can I do this?

Is this what I should pursue?

Then.. I saw this.

If you want to be a positive person, shape yourself with positive thoughts.

If you want a healthy looking toned body nourish your body with goodness and start working out.

If you want to be an athlete, start working hard towards it.

If you want to be successful, go out and work hard to be successful. 

I know when I first started working out, I felt that it was impossible for me to be healthy and happy because I wasn’t built in the right way. Then I realised that I had to work my way to being happy, and that it wasn’t going to magically fall out of the sky if I was doing nothing but crying and sulking in bed all day. I wanted to be a happy and smiley person like I was before, so I had to shape myself into that person by thinking positive thoughts and by my actions. 

You hold more cards than you think in life.

Focus on your strength and forget your weakness

"When you have a strength, you also have a weakness. And that’s okay. Let me give you my controversial point: Focus on your strength and forget your weakness. Often, our school system aims to produce well-rounded students who are jack-of-all-trades, but masters of none. Believe me, that’s the recipe for mediocrity. Successful people aren’t well-rounded people—they’re extremely fantastic in one specific field and a total nincompoop in other fields."


The first thing you need to do in knowing where you should be is finding out WHO you are.You are a DISTINCT personality.

People around come up to you ask ask or your help because you have such a 'killer' skill in nailing it.

List your strengths and weaknesses and you'll be enthralled knowing more about yourself. :) 


"Do you want to be successful in life? Focus, focus, focus. Be good in one thing. Be a master of one skill and make that your special gift to the world."

The Diva

Once I applied for a job.
Something that I was interested in and qualified for.
Gathered courage and tried.

I met some new faces and talked to one
Since the first glance, I had already thought she's a show-stopper
I talked to her and quite became friends

All while waiting for our interview,
she candidly shared a lot about herself
Quite frankly, resume's pretty impressive doing that masters degree and all
After interview, we're selected and both were asked to come back
However, circumstances have changed and neither of us continued our application

Now we're still connected, she headed the same path for another prestigious company
We're friends but with all friendly msgs I engaged in, she responded to none

It's quite disappointing
But also quite interesting to share it to my future self

LESSON HERE:
Not all people you like will remain the same. Most of them change.
(Whether you like it or not)


She now exudes this quite intimidating persona that she's of high statute
Well that's okay, it's her life not mine.
She's nice but after gaining a titled position; she somewhat carries it all over her head

Sad to know how high the tendency rate it is for the mankind to 'suck-it-up' all in.
The achievements, the positions, the gains, the money, the skills and talents ..
this my friend, are all BESTOWED.

Lucky for you who have been blessed.
And I hate to break this to you, but it's not justified that you flip your wings and sweep everyone to fall on their feet to your pure 'awesome-ness'.

Bring it to your heart, not all the way up to your head. And spread your arms to others, not your wings. That my friend, is a point I just have discussed.

xoxo

Casual Clothes that I PINTEREST

Well for a preview, style chique AM part kicks in! So basically what's happening here right now is that i found the perfect wardrobe pieces I can see myself perfectly fit into. Casual Chika  AMIGA!

#RANDOMTHOUGHTS
#CasualEverydayLook

Something smells fishy.....

‎CURRENT LOVE JOB: NACHO QUEEN :)

‎CURRENT LOVE JOB: NACHO QUEEN :)

"Listen to this: A job is an extension of oneself. Not everything about one's SELF, but it is important and essential to one's self- actualization. BUT, if it is not for you, there will always be something that is cut out for you, and it's gonna fall right on your lap without expectation, but of course with effort."

On Overcoming Fears

“Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.”

- Jim Morrison

Okay so today I'm re blogging a post which was very interesting. I have seen it more than twice already since some, if not most, were originally  from a book. We all have our dark moments when we  feel uneasy rather than comfortable,  out-of-place rather than belong, and the occasional 'what the heck am I doing here' scenario. Personally though most people see that I can be regarded as social butterfly, sometimes I find myself feeling awkward and jittery too. On a more personal level, such experiences are those wherein I  feel intimidated with the people I am with. On those times I feel like that? I become extremely quiet. I start to observe how these people talk, react, act and gather.  I smile occasionally when being talked to and try to keep an open-convo expression on my face. A talent that I have (that I thank God for giving me it) is that I can read people beyond superficial; And so, it makes things a lot simpler when I choose who to associate with. Back to the entree, each has those awkward moments you wish to never handle ever again. Mine was already given, what's yours? :)

Tips to get over your fears:

Baby Steps

First and foremost, you should try and analyze your fear. If you’re scared of public speaking, think about the worst thing that could happen: people will laugh you; you will forget your lines; what else? Once you identify that nothing too bad can happen to you, you can start taking steps towards getting over your fear. If it’s swimming you fear, start by using a bathtub. Then start with the shallow end of a pool with an inflatable pool tube and take someone you trust. See for yourself how much fun it is. But if you keep standing at the edge of the pool fearing the worst, you will be a scared cat all your life. Don’t panic. Breathe, calm down and face your fear. Stare it down.

Channel your thoughts

Don’t let negativity surround you in anyway. Keep telling yourself that it is going to be okay. That you’re going to do well. Every time you feel like you’re becoming negative, turn it into a positive thought. Keep reinforcing the fact that is not a big deal at all and you got this. You can do this. Visualize yourself doing extremely well.

Focus on the task

When you’re in the middle of it, focus on performing. Focus on the task on hand, not on things that can wrong. If you’re batting, focus on where to hit the ball, not on the ways you can get out. Shift your focus from the fear of failure to the idea of success.

When nervous, think funny

When you feel you’re getting nervous with a racing heat and sweaty palms, think of something that always make you laugh: like the sneezing panda or the ‘pehchan kaun’ joke or a Russell Peter quip. Have a good laugh about it and you will forget all about being nervous. Watch inspirational videos of how people have overcome obstacles and won and read stories that speak of triumph.

Try again and again

If you fail once, don’t give up and go into hiding. Try again. If the first time you bang your scooter into a wall the first time you take it out for a ride, don’t be scared. Get back on the vehicle immediately (given that it isn’t damaged beyond repair) and learn to do it properly. If you give up the first time, you will always remain scared. Don’t let fear win. Like the famous Mountain Dew ad claims: ‘There is victory beyond fear’.