Something smells fishy.....

‎CURRENT LOVE JOB: NACHO QUEEN :)

‎CURRENT LOVE JOB: NACHO QUEEN :)

"Listen to this: A job is an extension of oneself. Not everything about one's SELF, but it is important and essential to one's self- actualization. BUT, if it is not for you, there will always be something that is cut out for you, and it's gonna fall right on your lap without expectation, but of course with effort."

On Overcoming Fears

“Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.”

- Jim Morrison

Okay so today I'm re blogging a post which was very interesting. I have seen it more than twice already since some, if not most, were originally  from a book. We all have our dark moments when we  feel uneasy rather than comfortable,  out-of-place rather than belong, and the occasional 'what the heck am I doing here' scenario. Personally though most people see that I can be regarded as social butterfly, sometimes I find myself feeling awkward and jittery too. On a more personal level, such experiences are those wherein I  feel intimidated with the people I am with. On those times I feel like that? I become extremely quiet. I start to observe how these people talk, react, act and gather.  I smile occasionally when being talked to and try to keep an open-convo expression on my face. A talent that I have (that I thank God for giving me it) is that I can read people beyond superficial; And so, it makes things a lot simpler when I choose who to associate with. Back to the entree, each has those awkward moments you wish to never handle ever again. Mine was already given, what's yours? :)

Tips to get over your fears:

Baby Steps

First and foremost, you should try and analyze your fear. If you’re scared of public speaking, think about the worst thing that could happen: people will laugh you; you will forget your lines; what else? Once you identify that nothing too bad can happen to you, you can start taking steps towards getting over your fear. If it’s swimming you fear, start by using a bathtub. Then start with the shallow end of a pool with an inflatable pool tube and take someone you trust. See for yourself how much fun it is. But if you keep standing at the edge of the pool fearing the worst, you will be a scared cat all your life. Don’t panic. Breathe, calm down and face your fear. Stare it down.

Channel your thoughts

Don’t let negativity surround you in anyway. Keep telling yourself that it is going to be okay. That you’re going to do well. Every time you feel like you’re becoming negative, turn it into a positive thought. Keep reinforcing the fact that is not a big deal at all and you got this. You can do this. Visualize yourself doing extremely well.

Focus on the task

When you’re in the middle of it, focus on performing. Focus on the task on hand, not on things that can wrong. If you’re batting, focus on where to hit the ball, not on the ways you can get out. Shift your focus from the fear of failure to the idea of success.

When nervous, think funny

When you feel you’re getting nervous with a racing heat and sweaty palms, think of something that always make you laugh: like the sneezing panda or the ‘pehchan kaun’ joke or a Russell Peter quip. Have a good laugh about it and you will forget all about being nervous. Watch inspirational videos of how people have overcome obstacles and won and read stories that speak of triumph.

Try again and again

If you fail once, don’t give up and go into hiding. Try again. If the first time you bang your scooter into a wall the first time you take it out for a ride, don’t be scared. Get back on the vehicle immediately (given that it isn’t damaged beyond repair) and learn to do it properly. If you give up the first time, you will always remain scared. Don’t let fear win. Like the famous Mountain Dew ad claims: ‘There is victory beyond fear’.

My Gosh. I love my baby. How cute :)

My 22nd Birthday!

" Nangangawit na ako "

WealthyWinters

Clearly, getting rich--in monetary terms--is the result of investing in yourself and others, taking risks, doing a lot of small things right... and then doing one big thing really, really right.

And hopefully achieving other goals along the way--because then, even if you don't get rich, you'll still be wealthy.

THUMBS UP!

I have this profound appreciation and sense of admiration to CEOs and big bosses who knows that attitude they should keep with them. That no matter what you've done or accomplished in the past, you're never too good to roll up your sleeves, get dirty, and do the grunt work.  No job is ever too menial, no task ever too unskilled or boring.

The people around me are the people I chose.

The people around me are the people I chose.

Some of your co-workers drive us nuts. Some of our customers are obnoxious. Some of your friends are selfish, all-about-me jerks.

But here's the thing, WE chose them. If the people around you make you unhappy it's not their fault. It's your fault. They're in your professional or personal life because you drew them to you--and you let them remain.

Think about the type of people you want to work with. Think about the types of customers you would enjoy serving. Think about the friends you want to have.

Then change what you do so you can start attracting those people. 

Hardworking people want to work with hardworking people. 

Kind people like to associate with kind people. 

Remarkable employees want to work for remarkable bosses.

Successful people are naturally drawn to successful people.

FEU DILIMAN Marketing Event Sept 2012

Time doesn't fill me. I fill time.

Time doesn't fill me. I fill time.

Deadlines and time frames establish parameters, but typically not in a good way. The average person who is given two weeks to complete a task will instinctively adjust her effort so it actually takes two weeks. 

Forget deadlines, at least as a way to manage your activity. Because actually, tasks should only take as long as they need to take. Do everything as quickly and effectively as you can. Then why not use our "free" time to get other things done just as quickly and efficiently.

Average people allow time to impose its will on them; remarkable people impose their will on their time.

TADA!!!! D600 Baby :)

 My very first shot was YOU. :)

 My baby's handwriting is amusing! :) 

The long wait is finally over! After a long, tedious anticipation, I have finally have these in my arms. Thank you baby! :)

#GirlLookAtthatBody

GIRL, LOOK AT THAT BODY, THAT FACE! She's so fine!!!!!!!! It's not a secret that most women, if not all, have that keen sense of judgement when it comes to the beauty of another woman. Well aphrodite calls for it! So go ahead and appreciate!! haha Naks rhyming!

 #GirlCrushMode

LISTOGRAPHY: Random Acts Today

LISTOGRAPHY
(Things I want to do at this very moment)
August 8, 2012  || 8AM

#sketch
#make music and lyrics
#read books
#organize docs
#snuggle in bed
#update stocks
#eat PARES
#plan for expansion and system update
#have tarpaulins printed
#Talk with my boo

One of the most Tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. You only live ONCE. Not every waking day can be called living. Sometimes, it's just mere waking. Despite the crossroads ahead, chin up and chest out. You have a higher purpose than what it is that you know.

My SOON to be Closet :)